Small Talk Guide

Small talk is the glue of professional relationships. It breaks the ice and finds common ground.

Safe Topics (FORD Method)

• F - Family/Friends: "Do you have any plans for the weekend?"
• O - Occupation: "How long have you been working on this project?"
• R - Recreation: "Have you watched any good movies lately?"
• D - Dreams: "What are you looking forward to this year?"

Topics to Avoid

• Politics
• Religion
• Personal finances
• Health issues

The "Ping Pong" Rule

Conversation is like ping pong. When someone answers, hit the ball back.

• Them: "I went hiking this weekend."
• You: "That sounds fun! Where did you go? I've been looking for new trails." (Don't just say "Nice.")